I don't think I will ever be successful with the relationship game. I'm also a believer that the kind of guy you date changes as you age, hence marriages not lasting.
I'm looking for an intelligent, creative fun guy. Laughter at yourself is always a bonus. I'm also going to need someone who can put up with my idiosyncrasies. I can be neurotic, self deprecating, sulky and looking for an argument.
On the plus side I'm intelligent, happy, pretty, soft and able to give a MOT (being a doctor has it bonuses!).
For normal things like meals in and out movies walks silly conversations about life and cuddles and snuggles.
As my ad says Im a BBW so if thats not your cup of tea stop reading.
About me I'm single professional and genuine and drama free if thats possible. With a love of cuddles and kisses as well as intelligence and willing to laugh.
So if your interested in meeting for a coffee please send me a reply telling me about yourself. One liners will be deleted and your pic for my pic
I love music and have quite an eclectic taste, love movies especially French Godard films, literature such as Kundera, Bulgakov, & Tolstoy. I studied art history at uni so you can imagine that my favorite places in London happen to be the National Gallery & The Courtauld Gallery at the Somerset House.
I'm pretty independent but really easy to talk to, genuine, fun to be around, and open to meeting new people and experiencing new things.
I'm about 5"4', slender (but with curves in the right places!), green eyes, long dark hair.
I am mostly attracted to guys with facial hair of some sort, taller than me, similar interests but most importantly fun to be around and easy to talk to! I love Aussie guys so if you are that's a plus! But any nationality I am open to!
Send me an email, tell me about yourself, send a pic and you'll get one back!
Ideally, you'll know your way around a wine list and a Zagat guide, be tall (5'10 min), between 37-47 yrs old, and can afford to be selective, as I can.
I would like to meet a single man with whom I could share such pleasant times, become friends, keep an open mind and see where that friendship takes us.... A man with a good sense of humour, generous spirit, eclectic tastes (not wierd or kinky though), non smoker, with a zest for life.
I am a well educated, professionally successful, attractive (well, that is for the eyes of the beholder to decide :)!), fun loving, single woman.
If you would like to explore this potential liason further do drop me a few lines.
And please send me your picture - only then will I will reply and I will send you mine also.
It's 5 o'clock in the afternoon and I have a ridiculous smile on my face- spans the distance from ear to ear, and back round again! And it's not an unusual occurrence. You know how some people wake up after an afternoon nap sweating, crying, turned on etc..My 'sieste' look is a cheeky grin... Maybe it is because I’m interrupting my studies: correct, I am a student...Maybe it's because my boys are playing on Saturday: yep, I’m into football- Arsenal all the way! or maybe because I’m comfortable in my own skin.. and whilst I’d be happy to terminate my mid-afternoon spiel here; I’ve got an urge to continue... so I will :-)
I’m all for equality of the sexes but what is the world coming to? What happened to men pursuing woman? Giving her the story to tell her girlfriends and recount in her mind, to her mirror, to her pillow, with her friends wishing it was them.. I am me, I cry when I need to and live life carpe diem!
But I believe their is someone for every one and ..Soo the type of guy I’d like to pursue me should have eyes which smile as wide as my grin... devilishly handsome/ sharp, so comfortable within his own skin that if his soul could, it would secure tenure in that which enables it to express... he'd be 5'11 +, animated eyes and the life and soul of any occasions and situation: this does not mean he is loud! he'd appreciate my love for water and all affiliated with it, that I should have been born an Aquarius but happily a Gemini- but that that's irrelevant as I’m not really into horoscopes... enlarged funny bone and a wit that'd revitalise blackened souls... He'd be spontaneous, kind hearted and suave. yes a lot of you who'd epitomise the above are involved.. not my style so pls lets not attempt that..
I’ve tried to sketch a picture of his internal above- not a perfect x-ray- but can go back to the pad if it doesn't work..he'd have the above so the bare minimum that’d come out of our encounter(s) would be ..that we got on I guess..
If its you drop me a line and we'll go from there...
Well if interested send me an email, with pic or not. Does it really matter? I can send you one if you want. We could go for a drink and become friends at least or more if it is meant to be.
I've read some postings here on cl and in my opinion I feel that there's very little class and sophistication. I am looking for some nice gentlemen friends who will treat with the upmost respect & decency. Must be mild mannered, humourous and most important of all let me indulge in my fantasies. Although I'm 36, I look a lot younger - most ladies do these days...slender but curvy size 8, ample bust 32dd, 5'2" - best things come in little packages.
I am looking for someone just to watch me masturbate whilst I'm looking at some high class lesbian porn - ladies first!!! Then you can come all other my boobs. No fornication, no licking, sucking. I'm looking for some serious sensuality that I'm not getting.
I dont need your photo for now, it would be nice to make email contact first. Anyone who sends a pic of dick will be immediately excluded. I dont want any verbally agressive mails from guys who tell me that I'm immoral....I'm not interested in replies that say 'when' and other shallow responses. It's taken a lot of time and thought into my posting.
ME:
Fun/Full of Laughs
Intelligent
Smaller BBW
Black Hair/Hazel eyes
Tall [5'8]
Poetic
Determined/Stubborn
Cultured
Cerebral
Photographer
Romantic
Idealist
Bohemian/Hippie
Good Taste in Music
Debater
YOU:
Awesome
420
Boho/Hippie
Music Lover
Intelligent
NOT CREEPY/SELF-OBSESSED
I'm very well travelled and love the arts and culture- watching live jazz on a stage while drinking fine wine in a atmospheric restaurant with great company is my ideal evening. I enjoy wine bars, theatres, museums- but my main love is travel- the world is an amazing place. Don't get me wrong I'm not ready to give up my quite comfortable life to become a nomad! I have a great career in finance and great lifestyle, I'm pretty blessed and I'm looking for someone to share my great life with.
I try not to be too prescriptive about what I'm looking for- I take a person for who they are, not what I want them to be. However, to help you in deciding if we're suited, here we go-I would like a man who likes who he is, has depth to connect, is supportive in emotion, sees the positive first in people and not stereotypes, is not into playing big-kid games- and loves to keep a relationship beautiful, honest and real.. then let me know...
So please if you are not prepared to be honest about yourself or are looking for just some nsa sexual affair - stop - don't waste your time reading my ad - it is not for you.
I am writing this in the hope that some good guy somewhere may want what I want and tell me that in a mail.
I am 50, single, have no kids, have a busy job that I love and have no intention of retiring from or changing for some time, well educated, a happy jolly person.
I enjoy good conversations on almost any topic and enjoy learning - very eclectic interests - so am a pretty good listener. The price for listening is that you will have to listen to my opinions too :) - though I do not expect everyone to agree with me all the time!
I enjoy going to the movies, theatre, museums, just a day out in London or even on the river, a good dinner with good wine, or a meal by the fire. Short and long breaks to places I have not been to or places I have really enjoyed going to. I used to read a lot more than I do now - tend to read on holidays mainly and it is usually thrillers that are light reading now a days. I am quite happy with my own company but would be happier to do these things with someone who is good company. As far as sports go - I watch some, so if you are looking for a woman who will join you on a tennis court or the ski slopes read no further. I do like getting on the dance floor - not a good dancer though :).
I suppose I am looking for a man who can be a good friend first and then, if it feels right, more... I know, is'nt every or almost every woman looking for the same!!... So I am just one of the many I guess... it is up to you to find out why I am not one of the many!
I am 5'5", just started on the plan to loose the extra two stones I am carrying (and thoroughly enjoyed adding to over the holiday period - I love good food and drink!), dark brown hair with the help of a bottle, one missing tooth because I was too lazy to go to the dentist in time:(
no wrinkles yet, Indian origin, dark brown eyes, current style - short hair.
I am hoping to meet a man around my age - a few years here and there is good but a few decades is not, university educated, professionally successful, unattached currently, if you have kids I hope you are a good Dad, someone who is comfortable treating women as equals without feeling threatened. I do not believe men and women are the same, hell no two people are the same otherwise no one would be on CL! I do however believe people should do their fair share based on their time availability and their abilities, regardless of their gender and in a relationship it means being real good friends, considerate and caring.
If you want to know any more about me - just ask. But first, tell me about yourself - I need something to decide you are worth a reply, after all you must have thought I was, for you to reply to my ad :).
Do describe yourself so I can picture you in my mind or send me a pic, tell me something about your profession/ education (knowing this is important to me), how far you are from London, how many ex wives (I have no ex husbands - came close to marrying three times but wisely decided not to), any kids, please be a non smoker( I am), be a social drinker not an alcoholic(I dont drink daily), tell me what you do when you are not working - if you are into prostitutes please don't waste your time replying, Tell me anything else that you think makes you a great guy - why not! Please don't ask me to send a pic unless you have sent me yours.
If you can only be bothered to send me a one line reply or less than the basic information I request (and have provided) I will also give your mail the same brief time - read it and delete it. So, to get a reply tell me at least the above about yourself. Thank you.
Happy New Year! I do so hope you and I both meet the person who will add to our happiness and fill the little space in our lives - be it each other or someone else :) Good luck!
I am very pretty, 5'6, 38 D chest, proportionate and very curvy. I have a golden brown complextion, dark brown eyes and black hair. Sexually, I love to please and make sure my man is happy. I'm very girly and I like girly things. I love shopping, watching reality tv and traveling.
You MUST be at least 6' with a professional job and in between the ages of 40 and 52... I'm only attracted to older men.
Pics available as well - I look forward to your responses! :)
So why am I advertising again? Well, it's free and it's immediate. More importantly, I also received each time, one really lovely note that led to a handful of lively and interesting dates. Though nothing more came of either, it has fuelled my belief that somewhere amongst the rash romantics, the fantasists, the sex addicts and loafers who peruse the Lonely Hearts ads, there are men who are genuinely seeking someone special and, having failed to find that person within their own professional or social milieu, are casting the net wider on whim.
Are you over 40 and under 60, unattached, and in possession of your own family, sanity, hair, teeth, house, car and love of life, as I am? Are you intelligent, articulate, playful and well-informed? Me too. Add to that mix a number of contradictions: I'm funny and intense, sexy and repressed, bolshy and accommodating, loving and self-contained, generous and demanding, vacillating and solutions-driven... What are your contradictory characteristics?
Physically, I'm closer to Fern Britten than Fern Cotton, but don't yet need a paper bag over my head in public. I certainly look, and probably act, much younger than my age, am well-spoken and very social. I live within fifteen minutes of central London and would love it if you too are close to the centre.
If you're up for the challenge, please write and I will reply. If not, please don't send abusive notes telling me I'm stupid to advertise here (yes, I got a handful of those, too...) because, for the moment, I'm counting on third time lucky, stupid or not!
About me:
I am a tall 5'8 female who wears spike heels 'just because', which would bring me to a towering 5'11-6'0!! Short guys---sorry, I don't own flats.
I have short brown, bed-head hair and eye glasses are part of my eclectic wardrobe.
Pretty and slim of build but that's just genetics....
I am a 'Jackie of all trades'--so you name it and I've done it. Well almost anyway. I'm currently looking for a new job, and one abroad would be just lovely as I've wanted to move away for forever.
Though, I do come from a great (not good) family, and am morally sound, it's time to break away from the nest.
I am good natured with a touch of spice. I am realistic and speak my mind which usually makes it look like I'm complaining, but really I'm just vocalizing the things everyone else is too afraid to say!!
I've a strong character and like things just so, but that doesn't mean that I won't colour outside the lines once in a wile...
I'm a pretty good judge of character which is why I find myself single. I've weeded away the knobs and found everyone else wanting.
I haven't the time or the inclination to play games and to blush over dumb pick up lines.
I like things straight forward and to the point.
Which brings me to you!
You are: strong of character and morally sound.
You like animals and kids, which makes you a softy; but with a hard shell.
You know what you want and are out to get it.
You don't mind a little hard work.
You don't play video games and you have a life outside the ones of your friends.
You're honest and mature.
You can spell.
You're taller that 6'0, and don't have moobs. (sorry-long story)
You can dress yourself and I'm not talking about clothes from 1994. Up to date, clean, neat and funky!!
You DON'T bite your nails.
You don't smoke.
Maybe you even play an instrument, who knows...?
Impress me.
I'm looking for something rare and if I have to be on the web to find it, then a little entertainment never hurt anyone. Let's give this a go.
I'm looking for someone who wants to be friends first with an inclination towards an LTR. Screw the distance....if it's meant to be.
A hand-picked flower, a gentle kiss on the cheek when we are under distress, an unannouced "short and sweet" love letter, a matinee movie in the afternoon... on a Wednesday!
At any rate, just in case that light bulb hasn't gone off, I think I speak for all women when I say; You have my permission to think on it. Smiles
Although, on the other hand, if your mental capacity is higher than that of a church mouse, then by all means drop me a line.
me 5'11, 31 yrs old, I love dogs I have a pom.
I love to laugh. Fun, flirty, well dressed
I work with at risk kids, I run an after school program that provides tutoring and fun activities for them.
I am a writer, I love poetry and music, Im a painter, I love art. I love to swim, and travel. I like camping and having wild adventures. I like to dance and I love horse back riding.
What I have to offer:- Genuineness, openness, honesty, ability to share, attentiveness, style, sense of fun, support, warmth & of course, initially, friendship. I enjoy beautiful things in beautiful surroundings, good food in great company, retail therapy & working out, learning about people & places, good debates, long walks on cold days, a glass of brandy in front of a fireplace, etc. In short, I love to live & laugh!!! Can you handle that?
In addition, I am black & British, 5’1” with a proportional build. Everything I have is my own; nothing has been ‘enhanced’. I don’t look my age and at times I don’t act it either. I can be both sassy and prudish; I am sure that I have figured out which persona to let out and when.
I like people who enjoy the going out and also love staying at home, laughing and spending quiet time I'm a girl , 30 years old, high school graduate currently working and studying part time ballet teacher degree.
I'm a 24 year old female, from the Netherlands, but currently working/living in the UK. I'm a Gemini, and for my age I am always told to be very mature. I love traveling, and seeing and learning about new places, all over the world and other cultures truly intruige me! I'm a very passionate person, and go for the things I want all the way. In my career I'm ambitious and have high goals, and want to continuing to learn all the time. I'm strongwilled and focussed, and have high goals with my career.
I love meeting new people, and I'm a real chatterbox. I'm very spontanious and I'm told to be funny too :). As much as I'm very serious, I am a real goofball as well, and I love to laugh and make others laugh. I'm a happy, smiley person most of the time, and try to always stay positive about all that I experience in life, even when it comes to bad experiences. Sometimes that is hard, and doesn't work while I'm still in the middle of it, but always looking back at it, I can find a valuable lesson!
I'm am always up for trying new things, and am always in for a bit of adventure! I love the outdoors, and I love all that comes with that, such as hiking, skieing, biking, skating etc. In general I'm a very active person, but I can thouroughly enjoy a day relaxing with a good movie as well. It just isn't as much fun doing these kind of things alone.......
I have a true passion for animals and nature, and work with horses, and have worked as a dog trainer for 5 years.
I'm a very independant person and don't need someone to make me happy or to do the things I want to do. I just am starting to have the desire to settle down with 'my special one' person, to build a future with.
And hopefully next Christmas isn't going to be lonely............
I'm not into flings, or one night stands, and only want to meet someone who has the desire for a long term relationship as well. If you don't like kids (or want kids in the future) I don't think I'm the girl for you.
I go for love all the way, and I would expect the same from the person I go for. I'm just tired of wasting my time, energy and love on the wrong person......
Of course there is so much more to say, but I don't want this to become one of those long dragging ads! So if by this time you are still awake, and you think that I sound interesting enough, and you are no older than 35, I would love to hear from you for sure! Please send me a picture with your reply :) Thanks! I'm for real, and I will not put up with any scammers or people who are trying to ask me for money or other dodgy things.
Good luck for now, and who knows we might be meeting soon..........
Im a preety and young oriental girl ;) Well travelled and friendly.I also speak a few languages. Im looking for a generous older men ..Someone who can spoil and take care of me .Im also looking for a place to live at the moment.Email me, ill send u pics :)
I am in my early thirties and well educated. 5'5 tall and naturally slim. I like travelling, reading, etc and am a non smoker/drinker. I am looking for a well educated white Canadian guy who might share some similar interests and is looking for long term relationship.If you are looking for something casual, please do not contact me.
I am a British citizen living in London, UK at the moment and intend to move to Canada mid next year. If you think that we might get along well, please get in touch.
My love for nature has the Sea calling me
Sailing is more than a desire it has a boat with our name on it
Traveling the world over is our new adventure in life
You & I are each others best friend taking care to be kind
I have a teenager I love dearly who is training to be a Sailor
He is brilliant minded with a thirst for knowledge
A great spirit so I am told by many who adore him
You ought be interested in knowing him as well
Quality with assurance of integrity best suits our livelihood
Send your recent up-close pictures without nudity
Otherwise you will not hear back from me
I am beautiful physically, mentally, spiritually & tenderly
There are no vice or emotional issues with me
No compromise of solid core is necessary to be in love
I rather be alone then sell my soul
I will recognize true beauty in words softly spoken
In mannerism, persona & thoughts shared
Be real, be caring, be an honest soul
You just may win over my heart & I yours
I play a mean fiddle, bake a fine pie, and love spending as much time as possible writing, reading, and being outside. I'm learning to be a shepherd, really. I have a small flock of sheep, and aspire to trial a working border collie someday. I am obsessed with music, and love mostly all of it. Currently Iron and Wine is my favorite band, probably will be for some time. I also play banjo, guitar, and the Irish whistle. Musical guys who read a lot raise my eyebrows.
I'm 5'3" tall. Average size, nothing fancy. I'm not hot but I got a thing. I'm also (get this!) disease free, no ex-husbands (or current ones), no children, no weird past, I don't get "the vapors" or complain about anything because I'm pretty much just along for the ride. I'm a zen buddhist. I hate lillies. I also wrote a book which just came out and I am hoping helps pave the way for me as a professional writer. I have goals son, goals out the ying yang.
I am hoping to fall into a guy who can't keep his fingers off his guitar, gets excited about small things like freshly baked bread or good parking, and would rather stay in to record music than go out to a bar and bitch about things that won't even matter in 60 years when we're both dead. Someone who adores old records, probably shaves sporadically, has horned rimmed glasses and worries too much but wished he didn't. Someonw with a passport and a sharp wit. I love those smart guys, we'll need to keep up with each other.
i am looking for a white professional male between 40 and 52 years old, who is 6' or taller. this criteria is a must! aside from that, looks are not too important to me, my main focus is personality and generosity. i understand that most guys who have the means to provide for their girlfriends like this are superbusy and i don't mind that, i have a flexible schedule so meeting on your terms is ok for me. marital status is not an issue either. i love british men - dated one before, now i want another one!
as far as my situation, i would like to continue working full time and spend the rest of my time having fun and making sure you're happy. please have a professional job and be ready to be upfront with your financial capabilities. i prefer to only discuss money once and then have a nice normal relationship after that. (normal = fun, gifts and spoiling)
i will email you pics when you respond... yours would be nice too, but there's no rush.
My ancestry is European primarily, as well as from the Isle of Wight, Scotland, Ireland, and Norway and Sweden. Yes, definitely the American mix. I am a history buff, and plan on pursuing a career in research and archives in Europe within the next 6 years. I enjoy the outdoors, hiking, athletics, music, singing, writing, and am an avid reader.
I like men to be taller than I am, and I am 5'8" tall, like caucasian men, preferably clean shaven with short hair, and no children at home. If you would like to begin a correspondence, I would enjoy hearing from you. Your sense of humor and intelligence will win me over, as will a compassionate heart. I wish you a Joyous New Year!
I am not sure what can come from this being that we are so far....but I do belive in fairy tales...and as 2009 nears, why not be open to trying new things, so here I am!
I believe each person created by God has odds,so i believe that for me to have a very good relationship,we need to admit our odds.I love taking challenges, love being an ...
Compassionate, loyal, feminine ,sensitive, gentle and romantic.Funny, down to earth.